It’s a complicated thing, grief.

I tend to avoid the word when talking about this play - mostly due to people’s discomfort with it. Often, in response to their reaction to the play, I say, “but it’s also funny” which, let’s face it, further complicates things.

Keith Barker - Playwright/Director’s note

l-r Tamara Podemski and James Dallas Smith

Keith Barker’s critically acclaimed play,’This Is How We Got Here’ - a finalist for the Governor General’s Award in 2018 - possesses a comic elegance that underscores the profound tragedy at the heart of the story. A gifted ensemble of actors, under Barker’s direction, are able to take the subtly crafted, fast paced dialogue and find the eloquence and the poetry, the lighthearted and the sorrowful of day to day conversational strategies of people in the throes of prolonged grieving. Something almost Chekvovian, in part domestic drama, as characters stumble through the smallest details of their daily lives, often avoiding the over-arching burden of past trauma.

Kristopher Bowman as Paul has a softly powerful vocal range that gives the character an engaging presence and allows his sorrow to smoulder throughout, rising and falling with bouts of dignity, distress, and disappointment from one moment to the next. Michaela Washburn as Lucille matches this subtly and powerfully, bringing moments of great authenticity and grace to a woman barely able, yet consistently trying, to cope with what life has given her. Tamara Podemski’s Liset offers a sharply contrasting portrayal as the concerned sister, and creates a character filled with both physical and emotional power as she struggles to help her family through ongoing emotional crises. James Dallas Smith as Jim becomes a frustrated, supportive and compassionate uncle ultimately administering to a lost soul who stands at the core of the narrative.

And then there is the much discussed yet unseen fox, a recurring ‘character’ providing both comedy and sadness from start to finish - ranging from a garden menace to a symbol of hope and spiritual retrieval in the midst of loss. The story of fox, sprinkled throughout the play effectively fractures and unites various threads, similar to the ways in which Barker has dismantled and re-arranged the time frame, bringing us in and out of a story at contrasting moments, toward an unexpected ending that promises hope and comfort through the memory of a love that could not be sustained.

There is a beautiful elegance in the structure of Barker’s play. He fractures narrative like the moments of a fragmented memory, giving his characters great moments of conflict and daily detail that creates both comedy and pathos. There is a scene dealing with ‘fruit’ that resonates deeply within a friendship that reveals itself as both complex and filled with self doubt - both quirky and comic in its repeated identity squabble. Barker does all of this in a deceptively simple set of conversational scenes, split by the presence of an elusive and mischievous creature. Ultimately he deconstructs story, allowing an audience to be constantly engaged in the broken aspects of a timeless drama regarding familial love and the relentless aftermath of sudden and inexplicable tragedy. He shows us how his characters got there, to the places they were, the places they are, and the places they may be by bringing all of the pieces together.

RUNNING AT AKI THEATRE UNTIL FEBRUARY 16TH